Take time to contact the one you love or are attracted too. Time is fluid and finite. Wasting time trying to by shy or not seem desperate, could equal a lonely life in later years. Others, rather be alone, than show weakness to dial first.
Our solution. Start as friends first and invite the person out just to do something together. A museum, a play, a shopping trip (real purchases or just window shopping. You may come home with a real trophy.
Kisses from PARIS!!!